Relationship_issues asked: Hi! I know that the holiday weekend wedding question has been asked. And that the Friday night wedding has been asked. But I have never seen them placed together!
So, that’s what this is:
We are still looking for our reception location. Actually tonight, we will seeing the place that’s 10 minutes away. (The others are either 35 minutes from the ceremony or 60 minutes from the ceremony.) But those places (we are down to our top 3 spots) are either at or next to a hotel. The 10 minute place is not.
But, as we are older (34 & 39) we are not likely to be bar hopping afterwards. And after the three weddings that we attended last year, we went home afterwards. We did not spend the night in a hotel.
So, aside from all that, the place closest to the ceremony has a sentimental meaning to us. The 35 place and the 60 place do not. But, both are beautiful facilities.
The 60 minute place will cost us nearly 15,500 for a Saturday night for the package we want. But we could get the room and package that we want on a Friday for less than 8,000! That’s a significant savings!
(edit - the per person rate between a friday and Saturday is only a $10 difference, the real savings is in the guaranteed minimum which is only 100 for a Friday, and is 175 for a Saturday. Yes, I am aware that we need to pay for the people that come, whether 105 or 180, but since we have a starting list of 242, we have lots of “b” and “c” guests that could be cut. )
I mentioned to him the possibliity of a day after Thanksgiving wedding, and that was shot down with a “what am I thinking? A wedding on Black Friday? Are you crazy” - So that’s obviously out.
But… it came to me the other day what about the friday before a holiday? The Friday before Martin Luther King, Presidents Day. Memorial, Labor Day or Columbus Day?
I know that lots of people get married on the Sunday before these holidays, but was wondering how people in general feel about a wedding that was taking place on the Friday of a holiday weekend.
I know people have said that the Saturday during a holiday weekend, breaks up the weekend for guests and prevents them from taking a trip.
But figured a Friday wedding, they could just go on their trip or whatever the next morning.
And I know that some companies will close early on the friday of some of those weekends.
But, figured that the yahoo community gives me a general idea of how people could think, before suggesting this to friends or family members.
So, how would you feel about a friday wedding on the friday of a holiday weekend?
Thanks!
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